“Do you, Melissa/Jessica, take Jessica/Melissa, to be the wife of your days, the companion of your heart, and the friend of your life? Offering her your love and encouragement, your trust and respect. To keep her in sickness and in sorrow and to be loyal to her forevermore? And to stand united in the face of adversity and bask together in the light of good fortune as together you create your future?”
“I do.”
“I do.”
Always.
Today is the 1 year anniversary of our first date. A year ago today I had a moment of boldness and decided to ask Melissa out, not expecting her to say yes. Panic and nerves set in when she did actually say yes! I almost turned around at least a half a dozen times on the 1hr 20min drive. We met at a small Mexican restaurant in her town. We are both very awkward and shy so I’ll let you use your imagination as to how well it went.
Word of advice to the singe readers out there, don’t put too much stock on the first (or second) date. Unless the person is a jerk or rude to the wait staff, give them a second (or third) chance. I’m so glad I did.
Sometimes awkward first (and second) dates lead to marriage.
On Sunday I made a wreath while Melissa was at work. It’ll serve as wedding decor as well.
An Awfully Big Adventure 